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Gangbang - - I been to a few. It's always been done by close friends so the trust factor was always solid from the get-go. A few drinks...laugh a bit...loosen up. Once the woman was blind-folded and we all took turns touching her. She knew all of us that were there, but still...the thought of her not knowing who was doing what at which time was a turn on to her. She was very open to anything, which was fun. So, yeah...good times. But I think as a single male it's important to understand that yes...it's great getting your rocks off on a woman that loves the attention. That is what I think makes it stimulating for all involved...but I've seen a few guys freeze up over the whole concept when they realize whatever fantasy they been imagining in their head is about to start in front of their faces. LOL Reality slaps a few guys in the face and they realize they can't either a) deal with it or b) can't perform. So I like what Trigeek36 said...if you want a certain number, invite double that. Some are going to have issues. I always liked attached women so the fun of it was just that...all of us having a good time with no-strings. The cool thing is...some of the best people I ever met are swingers. We can always fuck and then go shoot pool afterwards...or vice versa. LOL The main thing is to remember this (single guys)...a guy loves having his woman banged by others...she ain't gonna start dating you. Respect them, buy them both alcohol on a regular basis and you will have a great time for a LONG time. Not sure if that answered any of FOX'S questions but I hope that may have helped somebody. :)

When does interest become pushy??? - - I've been thinking of this topic a lot since it first came out. I appreciate all of the comments made. EVILDOERS said, "Confidence is sexy", and I agree. I see a coupe of things here worthy of comment. First, in this game, women are totally in control. Sex is probably the strongest power position they have. All men want it, women control it. When they say no, or not interested, it's the end of the line for a man. HOW they say it is different. And how a man receives the rejection is different. Anybody who knows me social or professionally would never characterize me as shy. I'm outspoken and engaged most of the time. Because I've been rejected less than politely for advances in the swingers scene before, and after a lot of retrospection didn't deserve the rudeness of the rebukes, I'm a little more reserved, maybe even gun shy. The fact is, in this lifestyle, no matter how good you are, sooner or later you're going to get rejected. The person doing the rejecting may have had a bad day and be less than polite, but it also could be that you're not handling rejection well. Recently at a meet and greet I made an advance that seemed more than just welcomed, almost asked for, but was politely refused. I misread the signals, obviously. That happens to all of us at some time or another. The lady was polite in her refusal, and I think that's the key. I think at some time or another we all will give signals that welcome an advance, but do so in error. When an advance comes that we don't want we can reject it, but doing so politely is key. It's simple common courtesy. If the person making the advance persist, then something stronger may be necessary. Again, common courtesy would be to desist when told to do so. It's all about treating people with respect. We're in this lifestyle to be sexually connected with others. Advances are generally, but not always, welcome and expected. We need to be polite and respectful in both our advances and rejections, whichever side we're on. Mr. Sexperimentors

is soft swap swinging??? - -

YOUNGANDSEXY,

Anyone who tells you that soft swap is not swinging, is not a swinger. They are trying to oppress you with their idea of sex and relations with others. That in itself goes defies the definition of swinger. So just say fuck those fuckin fuckers. They are not worth your time. Vaginal intercourse with a stranger, does not make a swinger. If that were true, then all prostitutes are swingers. If it were me, I would say, "I'll full swap if I can take a morning shit in your fuckin mouth." Be sure to tell them they're not true swingers unless they fully open up to you. Lay on the pressure. See how they fucking like it. I hate fuckin' people that use snakey tactics and pressure.


-Don-

NO PIC Profile Poll...Do You Open/Search Them? - "YES" or "NO" answers ONLY please.... - I'm a professional I want to be discreet Sensitive reasons. You may be a great looking couple, but I'll never know..... If some one is on this site, more then likely they are swingers too. So who cares if they see your picture. Without a profile pic , you may be missing meeting some great people. Its the pic that catches my attention , then reading the profile to see if there is any match or interest is what I (female) look for.

Advice for "mixed" couples - What are the odds? - INSIN makes a good point. What happens if or when she finds someone she is more sexually compatible with and perhaps even more compatible with on certain other levels as well? That of course is one of the biggest potential pitfalls. But let's look at this from perhaps a strictly social angle. We've been doing this so long that almost all of our close friends are swingers. Will she continue to make friends with and enjoy the heightened atmosphere of socializing with her swinger friends over hanging out with say, more reserved mutual vanilla friends? I know how hard it would be for me personally not to get extremely bored hanging out with mostly vanillas versus swingers where few if any topics are taboo and there is the added excitement of sexual tension in the air. Sometimes it's really hard to put the genie back in the bottle once he's out. And SIRNEWBY is correct in that at very least you should communicate the SHIT out of each other. Talk about EVERYTHING, in DEPTH. Then maybe you have a shot at keeping your relationship intact. Of course we're all assuming that's your ultimate goal. We know plenty of couples, one in particular who is going through this currently where one spouse apparently does NOT want to preserve the relationship (at least on some levels) and was encouraging their spouse to seek outside exclusive relationships.

Political Office - Can swingers run for political office - I think that it depends on how high up the food chain you would go. (the higher up, the more of a big deal they would make of it) The honest answer is that it WOULD come out for whatever business it is of others. The SAD part is that it's looked upon as if that person were lacking in his judgement. The irony of it all is, that to last in this lifestyle, honesty is the key component! Something that apparently many elected officials seem to be lacking! ;)

A political statement - Just to stir something up! - I have to chime in on this...There is no one who did this but ourselves...we as a society have no real clue to the inner workings of politics. We want to know more of what Paris Hilton is doing rather than who is resigning the joint chief's role. We all need to look and take a part in our political society. Besides if we don't keep up with the political environment it will keep up with us. just take a look at the "blue laws" still on the books. In Florida it is illegal to participate in sodomy. Yes that includes blow jobs. In most states it is illegal to do any other position other than missionary. Texas enforces its Anti-Adult toy law to the point it makes national news!! We as a swingers society, who to most are unmoral, have got to learn to watch out for one another...because the government is not looking out for us...We have to make a stand a shout what ever we think..whether we all think the same thing or different. Just get involved with the process...not just a message board!!!!! The government doesn't even protect our men and women in the fields of battle. So what makes you think they give a crap about us!! So who is really responsible....we all are!!

Another Swingers Show on TV - - Perhaps it will become available as full episodes on the dicovery website??

Meet and Greet - - [align=center][/align] Florida Swing Party San Carlos Lounge March 11, 2011 The Friendly Members Club A no pressure evening of fun! Meet new friends and make your promises, or meet at the hotel down the street :) Come to 18911 S. Tamiami Trail, Fort Myers (41), San Carlos Lounge from 9:00 p.m. till 1:30 a.m. This is a straight bar and It's Ok To Be Sexy! Sexy is fine in public, nude is not:) This is not like many other Meet and Greets you may go to. When you get there, come up to the DJ and tell him you are here for the party. Kimi will introduce you to the other swingers in the room so you won't have to sit there and try to guess who else may be in the LifeStyle :) Warning: They like their music loud at San Carlos, and smoking is allowed. We hope you will all sit at a large table to get to know each other! We'll be playing all genres of music and requests are welcomed as always! Drinks are very reasonable, and no cover charge, but please don't drink and drive. Come out to party and dance with us! If you want to get a motel room, the Springs Resort is nearby....only a couple minutes north of San Carlos Lounge. This is one of the motels we used to have our parties. Go to http://www.thespringsresort.com/ for all info. Or.....Upgrades: Holiday Inn Express Approx. 5.6 miles from San Carlos Lounge on I-75 at exit 123. Hampton Inn Suites Approx. 5.6 miles from San Carlos Lounge on I-75 at exit 123. Embassy Suites, Hilton Approx. 5.6 miles from San Carlos Lounge on I-75 at exit 123.

Seperate rooms - Wife who prefer seperate rooms - Your right Kitty I think I might have said that wrong !!!!! I should of said that the newbies in the lifestyle like same room because they are not secure in the lifestyle yet !!!! But I have seen first hand where one spouse likes same room more then the other one so they can keep tabs on there spouse and these couples scare me .... From what weve seen the seperate room couples seem to have less drama and seem to be more secure in there relationships but this is just my opinion and dosent include every couple I know couples that have been swingers for 15 years and only do same room and are a very happy couples !!!! So thats why I said each there own ...... And we also do same room with a few of our friends its fun but different rooms is funner for us and we love to tell each other what happened and then fuck the shit out of each other after !!! We mostly just look for couples that like seperate rooms and dont push the issue with the same room couples we respect everyones rules and wants !!!! Thanx J

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