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A fine line. - - Trying to stick to the OP intent here. [quote=CARRIERMANANDGEEKGIRL][quote=EVILDOERS] we often find it difficult to walk the fine line between being nice, polite, and social with other people when we do not actually feel an attraction to them. If we had a week at desires it would be easier to be nice and talk with everyone. However adult hours are not easy to come by so we do find this line hard. My wife will talk with a friendly person or couple the whole night. Even if the couple is in some committed deal. I have been working on getting her to direct her time on couples she can see us doing something mor. Or limit the time she spends and move along. Do you at some point just say honestly that while they are nice it just ain't gonna happen? We only feel this is needed it they ask us if we want to get a room. At that time you just have to say something and it is never easy. Do you make some sort of lame excuse and beat a hasty retreat hoping they will get the hint? Do you move on to another couple that you are attracted to and look annoyed when the first couple follows you around all night. Of course some people just won't take a hint or take "no" for an answer and for those you DO have to be blunt. This is one method that does seem to work. It is easier if you do it early on in the timeline like the first 5 mins or less. So what techniques do y'all use in situations like this? How do you be nice to others without necessarily encouraging them? [b]Seriously? I mean, you don't know how to interact with others and carry on a conversation without having them believe you want to hop in the sack with them?[/b] Its not that easy.. How do you walk over to a couple and start to talk to them at a swingers party and not have them think you want the Mor?

Latest Tiger Woods Family Portrait - - One thing I love about a forum it does expose those folks with NO SENSE of humor. All the late night shows are having fun with this story, I can't wait to see what SNL has to offer, should be a hoot. If we can make fun photos and jokes about "Presidents" (and we have for as long as I can remember) I don't think a "golfer" should be off limits, which of course [u]he's not[/u]. Here's some jokes posted in another swingers forum here in Florida, so far I haven't seen anyone there start [b]whining and crying [/b]about the jokes. Perhaps our over exposure to sunshine has caused our [b]HUMOR ORGAN [/b]to become [b]ENLARGED[/b]. Apparently the police asked Tiger's wife how many times she hit him. She said "I don't know exactly

Lifestyles and Life I wrote this yrs ago - - There's 2 kinds of swingers. those that are, And those that want to be.

Where are the Midwest Swingers? - - I agree. It is almost impossible to find anyone from Illinois or Missouri in the chat rooms, let alone anyone that wants to chat with a single male. Everyday I go into the chat hoping that there is someone local to chat with, and come up empty. I do value the chats that I have with other members from the western and southern states, but it is so hard to find a topic to talk about in detail besides sports, the weather, or the economy. Most people dont come in here to chat about how cold it is outside.

Dont settle for fake sex - Sex with a condom is not sex - [quote=NymphoGentleman] I cant imagine anyone having near the fun they would really like to be having. What everyone really wants to do is fuck with no condoms. That is where the real fun is… Imagine a true gang bang - with the cum of 10 men in your pussy! Trouble is no one would ever consider such a thing. I suggest a new re-drawn swingers community where every single person involved is required to be tested regularly and the results are publicly available. Then swingers can feel safe and secure to do exactly what they really want to do. Imagine the true pleasure we could have. Sex with a condom is not good sex, I want the good stuff and I wont settle for less. [/quote] We get it. You don't like condoms. Got anything else for us or are you a one trick pony? [img]https://i0.wp.com/www.newnationalist.net/wp-content/uploads/2016/07/download.jpg?resize=223%2C160[/img] And don't you think it's just a TAD presumptuous in saying, "What everyone really wants to do is fuck with no condoms."? I think I may be starting to understand why you're single. Please disregard this post if you're A) Bi-polar and off your meds B) Drunk off your ass and/or just high AF! C) A fucktard who just doesn't get it, never will, and enjoys getting beat down on a swinging forum. No judgments if this is somehow getting you off. We all have our kinks. [em]Emo_96[/em]

Seperate rooms - Wife who prefer seperate rooms - Your right Kitty I think I might have said that wrong !!!!! I should of said that the newbies in the lifestyle like same room because they are not secure in the lifestyle yet !!!! But I have seen first hand where one spouse likes same room more then the other one so they can keep tabs on there spouse and these couples scare me .... From what weve seen the seperate room couples seem to have less drama and seem to be more secure in there relationships but this is just my opinion and dosent include every couple I know couples that have been swingers for 15 years and only do same room and are a very happy couples !!!! So thats why I said each there own ...... And we also do same room with a few of our friends its fun but different rooms is funner for us and we love to tell each other what happened and then fuck the shit out of each other after !!! We mostly just look for couples that like seperate rooms and dont push the issue with the same room couples we respect everyones rules and wants !!!! Thanx J

single men ...Toys or Annoys? - should single men be allowed to attend swinger parties - I have been on both sides of the fence here. As a pretty shy guy until I get to know people, I may have in the past been perceived as that creepy lurker guy. Heck, I'm probably still perceived as that. Thankfully my other half is drop dead gorgeous... If the single men are respectful and don't think that just because they are going to a swingers party means that they are going to get laid, than I think it's fine to invite a few. I've seen some married guys get pissed off that single guys were at a swingers club because their wife would rather fuck that single guy than fuck them. That can always cause a problem. Of course I've seen married guys who were pissed off that their girl was getting it on with a lady who wouldn't let the guy touch her. So it goes both ways. Whatever happens, I hope you have an awesome and fun party. Wish we were there...

Favorite bars in utah - - [quote=EVILDOERS]Sweet! But be careful! [url=http://www.nydailynews.com/news/national/las-vegas-doc-hosted-drug-fueled-swingers-sex-parties-cops-article-1.2151475]Swinger Doctor Arrested for hosting drug fueled sex parties[/url][/quote] If you're hosting a party and a couple "portray(s) ourselves that we didn

advice for non-city locations? - What do you do when you live away from major cities? - HOTTPACPL370, damn all these crazy settings! Actually, we haven\'t really used the internet for much at all. Instead we did the old fashioned method of going out to \"normal\" bars and meeting folks that way. It\'s a decent way to meet single women. We just figured trying the internet would be interesting since the folks on a site like this are already of a certain mind. At a normal bar you never know what you are going to meet or what their expectations are (like gals looking for a soul mate or husband or something). Of course, that can be part of the fun too! :D Maybe there are fewer single gals on the site because they can more easily get what they are after? It seems that meeting them is easier done in person, but meeting couples would be easier here. I don\'t have a problem talking to a single girl about what I\'d like (neither of us do), but asking a couple if they are swingers seems like dangerous territory with some people, who could get really offended. It\'s possible that we just don\'t know the couple dynamic very well, having only had singles (males or females) up till now. Maybe most folks wouldn\'t be annoyed or angry to be asked in person.

Hosts Needed - Looking for local hosts in each major area! - Hello Chris and I would love to host in the Ohio area.. We host swingers all the time when in the area...We've been in the lifestyle for over 6yrs now and hosting for over 2yrs. so if you are interested in having us host please feel free to let us know...

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