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Watching partner having sex - Enjoying partner with another - We both enjoy watching and being watched. It’s really erotic. In the past we have invited a few liberal minded, but not swinging friends to have drinks and conversation in a suite at the Monaco downtown. We invited a couple of lifestyle friends too. It was a fun experience. Sometime afterwards one of the curious vanilla friends admitted she kind of hoped that the lifestyle people might do something sexual while she was still there. I asked if she would have enjoyed watching. She said yes, especially if it was something involving one of the swinging wives, especially my wife, with someone other than the subject woman's husband, and even hotter if it was with a man or men she had never been with before. She could live vicariously while watching. It is fantasy she enjoys with herself as the woman in the fantasy. Her husband has the same fantasy but they are not so bold as to actually do it. They talk about it frequently while they are having sex together. Since then we have thought it would be hot to invite her and her husband and some swingers, to a hotel party and then tell them we are planning to play and let them know that they are welcome to watch. Definitely make sure her fantasy is fulfilled and let her see Mrs. Delicious with a man or two. It would be hot to just invite a couple of single men and let her and her husband watch Mrs. Delicious enjoy these gentlemen. I am afraid I'll need to join in too!

If you accept a friend request... - Is sex required? - I think you're running into the age old conundrum in swinging that people already have plenty of friends and what they're looking for here are friends with benefits...or at very least friends with the possibility of more should the stars align perfectly. Now if you don't ever intend for that to happen and are rigid in your stated preferences and don't believe in the old adage, "Never say never." then you shouldn't change your profile. There are, sadly, all too many profiles that don't cleariy spell things out and people feel deceived when ultimately they discover that you're just 'using' them for friendship. LOL If, however, you at some point in time decide that it wouldn't kill you to see your wife getting banged while you do the same to some other guy's wife maybe a rewrite is in order. If that will NEVER happen don't feel bad. You aren't alone. People who USED to be swingers and for whatever reason stopped often find they very much miss the excitement of hanging around with people who are sexy, fun loving and a little bit wild. Unfortunately they often find the same problem. People have plenty of friends they CAN'T fuck and don't see much point in using Swingular as a vehicle for find more. But don't despair, there are a few people out there who actually ARE looking for friendship first and sex, "If it happens."...or at least that's what a few say in their profile. We're actually one of those couples. We've told people many times that they don't have to fuck us to be our friends. And we mean it. So yeah, we're out there. We might be as rare as the elusive unicorn but we're out there. Good luck! ps- You could also consider becoming 'soft swap'. There are more than a few couples who only do that and have a great time without 'going all the way'. Just a thought.

Polyamory - polyanorous couples. - We have been in a Poly relationship with another couple for 2 years. There have been lots of great times and some rough times we have had to work through. It takes a completely stable marriage for the spouses and tons of open and honest communication from everyone involved. Both marriages are going on 20 yrs+ Every poly situation is different. Some have very strict rules, however we chose not to have rules. We just have mutual respect for one anothers marriages and each individual relationship between the four of us. If it ended today, I would have no regrets what so ever. Our lives have been enriched beyond belief and our marriages are stronger and happier than ever. I have learned so much about love, relationships, communication, and myself during these last couple of years and I wouldn't change a thing. We started out as Swingers and still have Swinger friends, but we are emotionally and sexually faithful to our partners. Five years ago, I could never fathom loving anyone else besides my husband. The other couple's kids are grown and we still have 2 at home. We will not tell our children the extent of our relationship with our couple until they are out of High School. Some Poly people blend homes and families. We chose not to do that, but do not judge those who do. Poly relationships are very challenging to say the least. It can be wonderful as well. Just my bit :)

Who thinks swinging should be just like ordering up an Uber? - - Just, you know, click on your phone and find a willing couple or single and 'wham, bam, thank-you, ma'am' after it's over you use your phone to immediately give them a rating. There could even be a short questionnaire about things like whether they argued about using a condom, whether their nipples were disgustingly pierced and even if their breath smelled like ass. Just think of the time this would save sorting thru 'binders of swingers' and trying to pick someone out based on a glorified Tinder profile. [em]Emo_28[/em]

Time for another poll: Unicorns - - Well, perhaps, if a woman really wanted to get into a full-time ongoing relationship with two men she might want to consider targeting bisexual men. We think the reason a lot of couples, within the swinging lifestyle seem to want to find a unicorn is because so many swinging wives are bisexual and therefore both the male and the female within the relationship sexually desire women. The three can all share every point of intimacy from flirting to foreplay into sex and multiple orgasms and even the afterglow. When everyone in a sexual encounter, wants and wants to be wanted by everyone else involved then hooray, hooray! Same would be true with a threesome involving a woman and two bisexual men. If both the men were bisexual then all three of the lovers in a DVP as an example, would be equally excited about all the points of intimacy down below and the list would go on and on. Yes the triad would be shunned by the more homophobic swingers and a lot of couples with a straight male or female only interested in straight men and yes the triad would have to remember that not all people are bisexual when playing with couples with heterosexual men or women. Never-the-less, the threesome could find a lot of joy together.

Swinging clubs/locations - - We went out last night. Button Down was full of Chads and Bros and the dance floor was small and uncomfortably crowded. No swingers in sight—just a bunch of kids (seriously, I felt really old there at 36). We bailed at about midnight and went to Moose Lounge and it looks completely closed down forever (**EDIT**: Moose Lounge is still open, it was just apparently either closed or just REALLY dead that night). We were very sad and went back to the hotel for our own after party by ourselves (which went very well for the record). We really liked Friday night moose lounge in the past, I hope something like that starts up again.

How's everyone spending the long weekend? - Who's up for some spontaneous get togethering? - We're celebrating our 15th wedding anniversary all weekend, we started Wednesday night with our private dinner and a Vegas show, Of course Thursday is T-day so family time, Friday is party time with friends, a dinner with everyone and a party at the swingers club later that night. Sat and Sun is as much sex as we can fit in. If anyone is in Vegas they can join us, we wish we lived in Utah though, so many people there

Is it ok for a man to be bi only when a womans present - - Psychologists have postulated that sexual preferences is like a line. At one end there is Hetrosexuality. At the other end of that line is homosexuality. At any moment in time or place or condition anyone may be anywhere on that line. Some people believe that they are at one extreme or the other thus they are either gay or straight... Mostly because of cultural and environmental circumstances, men are conditioned to be masculine, the hunter gathers and the strong silent type. Steadfast and independent, able to handle everythign by himself....except nuturing children.... Women on the other hand are conditioned to nuture children....of either sex and therefore there is no real stigma attached about kissing or holding people of the same gender.... In recent years some men are beginning to question this conditioning... and turning to what was called, "if it feels good do it" of the 60's. More men are declaring that they may can slide on that line and can be bi under certain circumstances. Unlike their femine counterparts bisexuality for men seems not to be so much about having any feelings or attraction to other males but more about whatever feels good at the time... There is no sacrifice to a mans "Manhood" if he goes down that lines from time to time or even decide that under the Play situation of sexual fun that some contact is OK, whatever that contact may entail. Somehow some people think that any excuse is necessary to justify bi play.... If one is confident with themself and can take the attitude, " dance like ther's noone watching" then what is all the bigotry about bi sexuality with men but Ok or actually almost required in Females.... I love to hear Joe Shit the Ragman saying "I'm openminded but I don't like bi men" or "It OK for them so long as I don't have to be around them" "We're openminded but bi males are a risk I just don't want to deal with" NUFF said... I'm straight but not closed minded... I've said it before... If there are 2 or more couples in a pile and someone starts sucking on your dick and it feels good do you look down and tell this guy to stop? Do you look at all? And what's thedifference if you don't know...? Ever thought of being involded in a glory hole? what if there's a guy on the other side of the wall? And finally do you realize that you are sucking someone elses cock by proxie when you kiss your wife and you are swingers and at a party....? Just food for thought ...No punn intended.

who starts? - - [quote=ARISTOTLE801] You would think, as much as the phrase [i]communication is key[/i], gets bandied about people would really want to actively engage in communication. It would seem natural that the more experienced parties would take the lead in discussing how things get done much like flight instructors explaining that when the oxygen masks drop from the overhead compartment, you place it over your head, secure the elastic strap and breathe. However in this lifestyle that couldn't be further from the truth. The problem is that if there is too much chit chat then someone is always in danger of being dumbfounded by the use of a big word. It's hard to be sexy when all the blood is now rushing to your head in a desperate attempt to draw upon a vocabulary that just isn't there in the first place. How do you get around this? Well, I certainly don't need to explain the folly of having a dictionary next to the hot tub. This is why it is strongly encouraged that swingers incorporate healthy role-play. When trying to get that new couple to first base it's best to stick with the basics. A good old fashion game of Neanderthals...ahem, excuse me, I mean cave people. Then the fun can proceed upon simple phrases like, "You look good" or "Me touch you now?" When becoming aroused you might say, "Oooh, this is how make fire," or "I look in hole for water," to facilitate cunnilingus. This role-play is especially helpful to those who don't have hot tubs, or who may have suggested strip Uno because they thought a

Rules - - This is not merely an issue on Swingular, but is a mind-set that we have encountered on every site we have belonged to, in every geographical area, and at many parties. Seemingly the single ladies get the accolades, while their counterparts, the dreaded single males, get the proverbial foot in the ass. Is it fair? We don't think so. However, it is what it is, and not likely to change soon. I'm sure that everyone has an opinion as to why this occurs (opinion/assholes being synonymous; everyone has one). Here are a few of our thoughts.... Perhaps one could say that this disparity is due to the fact that most couples are searching for females...either single or part of a couple? This is only PARTIALLY true as there are many swingers that are not looking for singles of either gender. Many couples are, in fact, only looking only for other couples to share friendship and intimacy. Perhaps the old adage "Men are a dime a dozen", comes into play? Well...one has to admit that yes...us guys really are rather numerous. Regardless of being within the Lifestyle or out....you can always find a guy, willing to hump your wife. Go to any vanilla event to find that out. Many might say that all single guys are pushy ass-wads, that lack the intelligence, class, or sophistication to show respect and patience towards a couple that's willing to share intimacy with them. Again, not totally true. We have met many polite, kind and respectful single men. We have also had numerous run-ins with females...both single and married, that have been just as crass, obnoxious and presumptuous as the most obnoxious single guy anyone could imagine. We like to call them the Bi-Nazi's: you know...the "it's-all-about-the-women" types. This brings me to yet another mentionable. There is also an unspoken "assumption", that just because any individual of the female persuasion is involved in swinging...she's automatically "bi-curious", "bi-sexual", or "just doesn't know that she wants to be yet". The obvious outcome of this mind-set is that unwanted advances, groping and attention comes towards the females/couples that are not looking for this type of interaction. Ironically, the same advances made by a male, married or single...would be dealt with severely in most cases. However...with the ladies...many consider it "appropriate", if not expected. Do you see the double-standard? Somewhat hypocritical I would say. Many get so caught up in stereotyping, and outcomes having to look a certain way, they are quick to assign social roles to various members of our Lifestyle. In the process, they forget objectiveness, compassion, and open-mindedness. Isn't that what we, as swingers pride ourselves on, "open-mindedness", and being "out of the box"? Ok..since sweeping swinger social changes (wow, say that fast three times...haha), are not likely to happen...Siren and I elect to manage what we know we can, and that's ourselves. We never expect anyone or anything to be anything but themselves, and let their actions and behaviors be the ultimate factor as to how we interact with them, regardless of marital status, gender, or seeking preferences. J

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