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Kitten160 - Threats - The virtual world allows people to do a bit of vetting before they agree to meet someone in the physical world and there are some advantages to that. Having a profile is a bit like fishing for friends. Sometimes the online bait looks pretty good. The downside is that anyone with a credit or debit card can buy a membership. Predators (sexual sharks) have bank accounts, credit cards, debit cards and such. If sexual predation is his or her motive of course a sexual predator would buy a membership on a swing site. Online can be like a shark cage. Sexual predators can see us, but they can't bite us unless we leave the cage. The more aggressively they attack the cage the more dangerous they must be. We hold off on phone numbers until we feel pretty comfortable. Back before the social media explosion the only way to get know about, let alone get invited to a swinger's meet and greet was to be invited by someone already involved, and usually they had to get your attendance approved, by the organizer, before the invent. So there was some added layers of protection, that were not fool proof, but often effective. Basically, people did or didn't know much about what's going on or who might be involved on the weight of their reputations. Really a good or bad reputation will still affect who you will meet or who you will connect with even today. There may well be some real legal ramifications involved for the administrators to allow a public trashing of someone's reputation, because the accusations might be true and they might be slander. What is and will always remain appropriate is to tell all your friends and acquaintances within the lifestyle about anyone you know for certain is dangerous. With all of that said, having been involved in the community for awhile, and yes we used to attend the big events from time to time, we have to say that the vast, vast, vast majority of the people we have met have been good people. Yes there have been good people we didn't see eye to eye with, and yes there have been just a few awkward moments, but still we have found that most of the swingers in the community are good people. As for the sexual sharks circling around the community, even though they may know more than we would like about where we are swimming, we can and should be protective of one another and let each other know when they are getting too close.

Keeping safe - Single females staying safe - Terry, That's all fine and good but you don't think that a guy might just SAY that in hopes of changing the girl's mind later? I'm not questioning your integrity or motives just saying that, in general, many guys will say and do just about anything for sex. I could easily imagine quite a few scenarios where a guy could come across with seemingly good intentions but have ulterior motives. Hell, we've had guys write us and ask to meet them and their wives (without disclosing that we're swingers) and suggest that we get the wife really drunk and then have sex with them. Again, I'm not saying anything about YOUR character or motives, just that because a guy SAYS he won't play with his "date" doesn't necessarily automatically make him trustworthy. YMMV Evil ps- We won't EVEN get into the subject of things like date rape drugs which by many accounts ARE being used in the swing scene by nefarious individuals. [em]Emo_8[/em]

ARE THE LIFESTYLE SWING COUPLES MORE SPIRITUALLY INCLINED - - Great question, I don't think lifestyle people are more or less. I think it's normal number are and are not regardless of the lifestyle question. We have meet several swingers that continue to have issues with this. They feel that their beliefs in god don't allow for swinging. So at times they have major guilt issues with the lifestyle or even just being bisexual. I personally don't get into that line of thinking because I believe that if everyone is in agreement and no one is getting hurt or lied to; then there is no "sin" with exploring the lifestyle.

Maybe its just me.... - Hears an issue that I encounter in the lifestyle, and im wondering if others do to or Its just me - I think I like the non-lifestyle singles better due to the fact that its easier to one night booty call. They understand the concept better it seems. If I play with a single from the site, I have more problems with them emailing me repeatedly, think I'll play with them again just cuz I didn't delete my profile after I played with them, and/or running into them at parties and having them assume that because I played with them once, they get a free pass to a repeat encounter. I have had a handful of problems with both lifestylers and non getting attached and thinking it was gonna be a relationship even when explained beforehand, but such is life. I also like to pick vanillas and not even mentioned the word swinger as both vanilla and swinger have a bad habit of assuming I'm a slut with no standards if they here we swap/trade/share spouses. I guess I tend to prefer playing with the vanillers and being friends with the swingers. (Not that I'm not playing with people from this site as well. I just pick from a wide variety of sources.) The nutcases come from everywhere though. I've definitely had my share of them. *shudder* I don't necessarily see it being more prominent in singles (of either gender) or couples though. Just happens here and there. :D

Somebody already said this - Need to know where to go since Habits closed - [quote=HFUN]hey club 90 has had its share of swinger partys and no one knew it was a swinger party except the swingers who were meeting and its just a block away from sandy station..so..[/quote] Yep! We go to Club 90 a lot and have enjoyed our time there. Have been to plenty of meet and greets. Been going there for 10 years.:)

single men - - I'm gonna toss my 2 cents in here just because I happen to have spare change .. EASTTENNCPL hit the nail pretty much on the head with their statement to not expect anything; but it really does apply more to single men than others. While it is true that there are overwhelmingly more single male profiles here than others, there are actually underwhelmingly few 'active' single males. By 'active' I mean: Socializes openly with others (men, women, and couples alike), participates in forums (other than to complain about how single males are treated), frequents the chat room (other than just to hit on pretty women), and/or are actively involved in swinging community events. Most of these things are really just a simple matter of being there without any expectations. On the flip side, every couple and single female user on here knows that to openly seek single males is an invitation to a torrent of spam. By spam I mean unwanted communications, i.e.: anonymous friend requests, emailed cock-shot pics, etc etc .. which is the ultimate source of the single male stigma. They instead resort to browsing through profiles and responding to what's pretty, only to receive a jack-ass in reply. The problem seems to stem from the perception that this is a 'hook up' site. When treated as such, it tends to behave as such. In the sense of Supply; what we end up with is a population of potential quality single male members who are squelched and masked by a tidal wave of idiocy. Then in the sense of Demand; we end up with a population of jilted single male seekers who are almost afraid to put forth active effort in seeking those members who readily meet their desires. The solution lies in utilizing the site for what it is: a social networking site. It's much like Facebook, MySpace, or LinkedIn. The difference is that this site's specialization is Swingers. You get more value out of a social networking site by being .. 'social'. If you're social you tend to be actively involved. When you're actively involved, you tend to get noticed. When you start to get noticed.. well, Problem meet Solution. Sorry for the novella.. like I said, had some spare change.. Alex

Any success on this site? - So far not getting results. Any suggestions? - We are brand new to this as well (Just a few months in)... A few things I can tell you BASED ON OUR EXPERIENCES: 1) A number of the profiles on here are fake. Especially true of the extraordinarily good looking people. It's a tactic used by the management of the site to convince people to join the site and/or buy memberships. (It's not an uncommon tactic of ANY dating site, or swingers site, by the way). But just know that when you send a note off to that ridiculously gorgeous couple with the amazing profile -- they're probably not real. Also note that almost every photo on this site is hand-picked, and VERY VEW of them are a good representation of what the couple ACTUALLY looks like. (9 times out of 10, we've met the couple and said "yeah, they look NOTHING like their photo".) Either the photos are REALLLLLY old, they were taken at a very convenient angle, or they're blurred so much you can't tell WHAT you're looking at..... If you rely solely on photos, you're going to be very disappointed. 2) People in the swinging community are generally interested in people who have similar body-types and similar ages. (I don't want to debate whether this is right or wrong, but it's, generally speaking, a fact). A moderately overweight couple in their 40's is going to have the best chance at hooking up with another moderately overweight couple in their 40's. If you try to go "up", the other couple is probably not going to be interested. If you try to go "down", the other couple is likely to feel a little intimidated. Remember, we're all here to fulfill lustful passions, so understanding where you fit in on the hotness scale is sort of critical if you're going to have success. 3) The site itself is actually a really crappy way to meet people. It's almost impossible to tell if you'll like another couple based on (bad) photos and a profile. Most people are flakey about returning emails, or worse, about showing up. Often times you'll get some response from one person, who then shows your photos to their spouse, who veto's the whole thing -- and they stop communicating. You can REALLY spin your wheels hard if this site is your only source of attempted hookups. 4) Since exchanging emails and photos with other couples on the site is a bad way to meet people, the GOOD way to meet people is to go the parties, the meet & greets, and the other events. This is where you have the best chance of "speed dating" other couples.. where you can quickly judge each other's personalities, looks, etc. 5) The ladies are in charge. Period. You will have far more luck if the lady half of you is doing the communicating and the flirting. We DESPERATELY wish it was easier to meet people on the site.... We've had one or two great experiences, but mostly just dead ends and flakes. =( However, we've had VERY good success at the in-person events.

GB group - Interest - [quote=CHEFFETTE][quote=MYOHMY][quote=CHEFFETTE]Straight men are afraid that bi or gay men will treat the straight men the way straight men treat women; it's so obvious when they avoid them at every opportunity, yet delight in a bi or gay woman - they know they're more likely to physically overpower a woman's actions.[/quote] That's a mind-cranker there. While I suppose that could sometimes be the case, males who score a zero on the Kinsey Scale may just be creeped out at gay/bi males because they aren't sexually attracted to them and can't relate at all. Not because they fear that some guy will bend them over and rock their anus without permission.[/quote] Are these men equally creeped out by females they don't find attractive, so creeped out they refuse to be in a room w/ them when everyone is naked and there for nothing but sex? Of course not. Funny that the thing you imagine immediately is the anal rape of a straight man by a bi/gay man, the standard homophobic trope that it is despite an almost complete lack of it happening comparatively; do you think that's the only way women are treated by men? It's interesting to me that you call my statement a mind-cranker, then mention Kinsey - Kinsey's body of research intending to be a mind-crank all on its own. [/quote] I am heterosexual. I am not homophobic. I am not worried that someone might think me bisexual or gay just because I have bisexual or gay friends and or associates. In our profile we only checked no to homosexual males because they would not be interested in Mrs. Delicious sexually and I would not be interested in them sexually. So why would we hook up? Bisexual men are not a problem because they will enjoy playing with the wife and if they get a bit of an extra thrill because there is another man or men in the room good for them. Heterosexuality, homosexuality and bisexuality are all normal and healthy sexual behaviors. [b]Rape or any other form of non consensual force, be it physical or emotional are not in any way shape or form normal or healthy.[/b] So having kind and considerate bisexual men, in the room during playtime or even kind and considerate homosexual men in the room enjoying each other would not be offensive to either one of us. It would not excite me but it would not disgust me. Mrs. Delicious is excited by men, so she admits it would be arousing. I am aroused by women so watching two women together excites me. What's the difference? In the end if a man enjoys watching a woman having sex with a man other than himself he is not altogether anti-man. If he prefers watching a woman having sex with a man possessing certain physical attributes he must admit, he has in a way a form of preference, as to the men he enjoys watching pleasuring a woman or in the case of swingers, his wife. Guys think about it the next time you are watching pornography. If a man, all alone, with nobody to judge him, has no desire to watch gay pornography he is either 100% or almost 100% heterosexual. That would be me, I am heterosexual. Mrs. Delicious is bisexual and enjoys the ability to be sexually attracted to and to sometimes sexually enjoy a wider variety of people in this world. We all have to accept who we are before we can accept others for who they are.

Vegas JP/TSC National Swingers Convention - August 5-9-, 2009 - I'm not advertising for them, just curious if anyone from Utah is going. http://www.jpjustparties.org/ Would love to go if any lovely ladies need a partner.... Mav

Yay Delaware. - - What, no love for equal rights for everyone? Hmmmm thought swingers would kinda fall into that category on this particular social issue. Maybe it's a Utahr thang. On other swing sites support for gay marriage is running about 85-90%. Oh I get it. Maybe gay marriage somehow threatens your straight deviant non-monogamous marriage. :-P Yes, most vanillas who would oppose gay marriage would probably consider YOU a deviant because you fuck outside the bonds of holy matrimony. Looks like Minnesota will be next which oddly enough the other swing site I'm speaking of is based out of. :-)

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