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Important Info regarding New Year Eve Fantasy Ball - Hosted by Secret Desires and Utah Uncensored - We have no issues with single males that are in the lifestyle. Most we have met are very courteous and kind. We do, however, have issues when a security gaurd/ bouncer which has been entrusted to maintain the security of the party says "hey, you want to go upstairs and check out the swingers?" to people that are not part of the group. We are not a Zoo exhibit to be gawked at. I'll tell you what. IF you can guarantee that this will NOT be the case, then we will be there.

I'd like some advice.....really, I'm serious. - - We've always gotten a chuckle while running into co-workers on this site, or we discover they are swingers. This has happened quite often, and it's remarkable what a fun common interest it is to have with someone with whom you've only had a working relationship. As for the play part, we rarely if ever approach or intimate that we'd like to play with them, and let them approach us. Swingers should not be embarrased about being in the lifestyle, and if they are...one must quetsion "why"? This is also assuming that if they prefer discretion, those with whom they associate will not let the proverbial cat out of the bag. Even though they may not be seeking single males, why can't you still maintain a friendly relationship with them; undoubtedly the chances of running into them at meet n greets, or house parties exists. You never know, they may get a good chuckle as well. Just be polite, and not approaching like the cliche, stereotyped single male expecting sexual favors from them. Good luck! ~J~

BDSM and Swingers? - Where does BDSM fit in the swingers' world... your thoughts and experiences? - Our experience (almost 30 years in the lifestyle) is that the kink community and the swinging community don't mesh all that well. Sure there are some swingers who are into BDSM but by far most people who practice BDSM aren't swingers and more than a few actually look down on swingers (funny, if you think about it) for having consensual sex with multiple partners (with or without whips and chains). We've dabbled in very light BDSM a time or two and found that it DEFINITELY isn't our thing and other than maybe a little spank on the ass during doggy style sex it isn't the thing for about 99.9% of the swingers we've met. But look around a bit and you'll find a few swingers who like to play act BDSM on occasion and perhaps even a few who actually practice it as a lifestyle along with their swinging.

Desire vs hedonism - - I know there have been similar topics, but I couldn't find them in the forums. So starting a new thread. To the people that have been to both hedo and desire, which would u prefer? I thought secrets and excellence were swinger resorts too, but now I can't find any evidence to support that. Anybody been to excellence or secrets and can tell me if its for swingers?

How do you identify other LS folk in the wild? - - People aware of the lifestyle, who are not in the lifestyle, that we know, seem to think that some of the people who go to Club 90 are swingers. They knew about Habits too. I don't think that very many outside the swinger's community, seem to even know the Moose exist. As for jewelry or accessories that swingers might use to subtly self disclose, I don't think they have any thoughts on the subject. We are out numbered, even though our numbers are growing. It's possible, and maybe even probable, that there are more people out there, who wear black rings, or anklets, or toe rings, that have no idea what they might suggest to swingers, than there are swingers, wondering if their jewelry selection means, that these people swing. Recently, I bought Mrs. Delicious a nice, long scarf, with sort of subtle silhouettes on each end, of a naked woman, sitting on a naked man's lap with her arms wrapped around his back, and her legs wrapped around his waist. If you look close it is a couple having sex. If you don't it's just a design with colors that go well with the majority of the scarf. If the scarf is hanging with the ends sort of in folds, it's hard to make sense the silhouettes. If she makes sure the ends are flattened out then, if you look, it's obvious. So, let's say we go out, and someone seems to be interested, and looking our way, and maybe we are interested too. She can flatten the ends out. If someone seems to be looking at the design with approval, and it just so happens, that the scarf is draped over her braless breast, to concealing her nipples, that would otherwise, be quite visible, through her shear shirt; and one or both of her nipples end up out from under the scarf, well there you go. Really a scarf, and a shear shirt, is probably enough, but the design is also fun.

Mardi Gras unzipped in slc - - We've thrown very large Mardi Gras parties and Halloween Parties in the past,and most people showed because we made them pre-pay for tickets, so they had some investment in the party. Most of them turned out good. What cracked us up the most was--the ones who come and seem to act like we owe them some kind of magical fuck-dust or something; I mean if you are dumb, don't work out, and have a rude personality, just going to a party of people in the lifestyle doesn't guarantee you to get laid or be invited to an orgy. Two times we gave a trip to New Orleans and as soon as we rewarded it we started getting attitude that we owed this person more. No feeling of thanks, but more of 'what else can I suck ot of you'. The Last one we gave a prize to New Horizons in Seattle--our favorite swing club. Got the same attitude from the couple, really even condescended to us. It was really a shame. We forgot to get them a car to drive around, our bad. Gave you a 2000 gift, get your own effen car, cheepasses. Well, anyway. My message here is be thankful for those who try and if you win something, show some effen gratitude. Swingers can be such cheep asses. Pay for the show, enjoy what you can and be more thankful, cause if you aren't you may scare off those, like us, who tried. ;) We didn't know of this party but we're always up for a good one. We usually invite a couple with us so no-matter the outcome of the party we'll have a good time. I recommend that to those who attempted to go to this party and bemoan how lame it was...so there I am with FUNNESTCOUPLE81. Life is what you make it.

Women with hall passes - Ever get with other couples - We've been known to do that but only if it's quid pro quo. Unfortunately there are quite a few people out there trying to game the system, claiming they're swingers when really all they want is another female to join them. They use various tactics to try to separate the female from her partner and will, of course, never reciprocate. Now we'll only consider ii if we've known the couple for a little while and at very least played together with them. Yeah we're assholes that way. [em]Emo_84[/em]

Another way to identify swingers - Totally hot T-Shirts - I dont really like them , if i did get one it would only wear it to a swing party, and i hope everyone already knows thats why were there LOL..... I do have the neckless and wear it all the time, at a swing party or not... Im just not much for the shirt idea Thumper

Let's play, rate a profile. - - Wow! I just want to call out some REALLY AWESOME things in this thread. 1) Ucouple - you did a FANTASTIC job of calling out all the things I was thinking about rude3050's profile and you weren't rude or condescending. You were sincere and helpful and that is AWESOME! I hope we can cultivate more of this kind of a culture in this community. Thanks for being the example! :) 2) rude3050 - you took the constructive criticism and advice you were given and acted on it right away, very effectively and without getting defensive. Good on you man! Your profile just improved by leaps and bounds today. I don't have any idea what the lifestyle scene is like in Kansas but the changes definitely improve your odds. Kansas swingers take note of this guy! 3) All the other thoughtful, encouraging and kind words in this thread...kudos all around! We all tend to get hung up on the bad behavior - sometimes it seems like there is an awful lot of it. I think the majority of the real people on this site value kindness, honesty, inclusion, etc. I'm going to make an effort to focus on and call out the positive more often - starting now. Thanks everyone for the uplift! :)

The Party Cookbook - a cookbook created for the Swingular community - I have recieved emails in favor of this adventure as well as seeing the responses here. I am all for accepting the food recipes as well as drink recipes [I have a few I would like to add as well]. So I say let's get started!! Recipes can be for either food or drinks 1.Name of Recipe a. List all ingrediants and measurements b. Then state how to mix it up 2.Put down how you would like 'Submitted by' to be [your name or handle or anonymous] You can submit as many as 5 recipes but no more then this as we want to have others in the book as well If you like, also add a title suggestion for the cookbook. EXAMPLES: The Party Cookbook THE SMORGASBORD OF SWINGERS are two of the suggested titles thus far You can post them here and I will grab them daily/weekly [depending on submissions] or you can send them to me via HoneyDo69. LET'S GET THIS PARTY STARTED!!

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