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Newbee! - Need advice - First off, expect to run into some flakes, people who will agree to a meting and not show up. There are all kinds of different reasons someone might do that, but just the fact that they don't show is the important thing. It's kind of sad, but it's just a fact of swinging life. But keep in mind that those people are not that majority. Second and this is what's probably causing you difficulty, is that it's in many ways a numbers game. If what you are offering is what lots of people want, and if what you want to do is what lots of people are into doing, you'll have large numbers of swingers out there who could be interested. If either of those are something not very many people want, the number o people gets limited. If there are 4000 people on the site whose interests re the same as yours, you'll stand a much better chance of finding people with whom you're really compatible than you would if there are only 100 or so out there. And, while the actual numbers I used are likely way wrong, you're in the second category. You might want to think about adding that while you want the hubby to get a BJ from a guy, it isn't actually a requirement. In fact, if it were me, I'd leave that out altogether. While people do sometimes find someone online, meet with them, and then hook up, that happens less frequently, I think, than people hooking up after meeting in person at an event or party. When you meet in person, both couples can get an idea who the others really are, and whether or not they want to play. If both couples decide they want to, that's when you can talk about what you'd like. You might even want to forget about the guy-guy stuff at first, and bring it up as a possibility after you've known the couple for a little while. Men in general have a real problem with male on male sex, and just bringing it up at the start might scare some people off. But if you do start some kind of playing relationship with someone, do not try to sort of sneak the male-male thing into it, say in the middle of a play session. If you reach a point where you think they might be open to it, make sure you discuss it beforehand. That having been said, there are bi guy on the site. In fact, there's even one whose username is something like bi for couples, a single guy who wants to play with both halves of a couple. You probably ought to go to some meet n greets and some events so you can meet people, rather than relying on just the site itself. Probably the best place to meet and hook up is at parties, and you need to meet people so that you'll get invited to some. ~ Terry

Swinging on the increase. - - [quote=SEXYRIDERS]I think they are everywhere!! LoL...especially down in the Draper, Sandy area...I threw a rock to see how many swingers houses I could hit in any direction and I averaged two out of every three houses were swingers...the odds went down the further south I went tho...lol..people just started getting mad at me and/or invited me to church.. Evildoers you guys probably don't have to look very far I'm sure...we always enjoy reading your funny posts, and some of your pics are hilarious! Love the mini Tabasco bottle...lol...the Mr was goin to do one with a chapstick but it was too close in size ;) ;) ;) ;) .... Back to the topic...we think swinging IS on the rise too. The link is a pretty good article, similar to others we've read. I hope more n more people join the club (as long as they're ready for it) ...its been a good thing for us and we have had some amazing experiences and met some great people. [/quote] I'd be mad too if you were throwing rocks at my house. :P

adult theaters - - [quote=BITESIZE]It seems hard to believe because of how available it is on the internet, but it is illegal to make or distribute actual porn in Utah.[/quote] So could we open a virtual theater with 3 dimensional anime porn? Seriously there used to be a couple of theaters in downtown Salt Lake City. If I remember it correctly the way the law was written it was the projectionist was who got arrested if the porn crossed the established lines of decency written in the law. Misdemeanor charges. The projectionist would occasionally be arrested bailed out and a fine would be paid. They had a few projectionist that had records that were willing to do the job because they were paid wages that were like 5 times what a projectionist normally gets paid. In the end the investigators were able to discover that the owners of the theaters were using the income from the theaters to subsidize totally legitimate businesses they also owned which resulted in racketeering charges which are a felony and directed at the owners. That was the end of pornographic theaters in Salt Lake City. The internet probably would have put them all out of business anyway. It seems that I remember that there was also was a well known and very successful modeling and acting booking agency that also sometimes pimped out really stunningly attractive women and some men too to wealthy business people visiting Salt Lake City. This agency had a big legitimate book of business and just sort of disappeared over night due to racketeering charges involving money for sex being deposited into bank accounts of the agency. So maybe any money earned by anyone, event and party organizers included that can be tied to the lifestyle should be kept separate from any other business they might own just in case the ultra conservative side of our city ever decides to find some leverage to try and shut down swingers events. Anyone that has been an adult for over three decades living here can see that the culture that apposes the near theocracy that existed here for so long is much larger and has more influence and control than was the case not so long ago. Salt Lake is home to some of the most conservative minded and liberal minded people in the west when in comes to the subject of sex.

Why do they run? - Why do most couples run when you suggest a real full swap? - We would not go for that. And a couple with whom we play did that for awhile and it damned near wrecked their marriage. What you are talking about is very close to just plain cheating. Successful couples, swingers or vanilla, are generally inward looking, looking at one another to the exclusion of the world or back to back facing the world together. From our point of view, at least, swinging is merely an extension of sex for fun in which other people take the place of toys. We don\'t for one moment forget that they are people and not actually toys but in termns of our own relationship they are peripheral though they may also be good friends. To split as a couple so that each may go his or her own way later to regale the other with his or her exploits doesn\'t work. I don\'t want my wife to tell me about her antics with another man. I want to see her with another man.

Do you kiss first and then ask?? - Does anyone else ask about HSV 1 (oral cold sores) before kissing? - Well the 80% number is for adults.. of course kids who have not kissed yet is less. IT is fairly contagious. Enough that the experts recommend changing towels in the bathroom often if someone in the family has HSV 1. So if a couple got married without many kissing partners when they were young and have been married for 25 years the 80% does not apply. The testing reliability is a problem because of cross counts between HSV 1 & 2 or some technical thing I dont feel like quoting right now. But some positives might be negative however a negative is good new from what I have read. As far as swingers not playing because they have a tingle in their lip. I dont see that stopping many of the folks we have met at some of these parties. I hear it all the time life is dangerous and you could get in a car crash today.... YEs but we do what we can to prevent things and some of us more than others.

Swingers Party - Doesnt mean who ever is there is open to everyone elsa - Behavior like that is sad to see and worse to experience. I was groped by a man on the dance floor at a club not too long ago and worst of all was the fact that he almost needed to grab me to keep from falling over. We had seen him on the dance floor earlier, but had thought that the women he was fondling were friends of his. Apparently they weren't, but not one of them said anything to anyone about it, except for me. And that is the one of the reasons that I personally love that particular club so much is that he was quickly removed after we said something. Most clubs, if such things are occurring will quickly "take care" of the situation for you so that you can continue to have a good time, if it hasn't been completely ruined by the experience. Just wanted to share my experience. -SG

please be careful - - ...interesting comment from another site.... "Older folks swinging their way to STDs ..... older "swingers," ... are at high risk for chlamydia and gonorrhea" sounds very alarming, until you read the details and consider other factors. "10.4 percent (risk) of swingers being infected ... compared with 14 percent of gay men, 10 percent in straight people who did not swing" Really? Only a 0.4% increase over straight..." That's NOT a comparatively high risk. In "... the over-45 population, they found 55 percent of the diagnoses for chlamydia and gonorrhea occurred in swingers, versus 31 percent in gay men" - This is meaningless without more data, such as the comparative size of the populations. " The study authors hypothesize ...." Yeah, a lot of hypothesis and little to back it up. The only worthwhile line in this article is "...researchers recommend swingers be tested for common infections like chlamydia and gonorrhea regularly and practice safe sex."

Swinger wife anklets? - Time again for one of those questions. - Thank you. That is how she approaches her anklets at present. We have heard conflicting reports about anklets. Most of the people we know, that bring up such things, seem to think that an anklet worn on the right ankle means a married woman is allowed to have sex with other men and or women depending on her preferences. Others seem to think it should be the left ankle. We know vanilla people, that are interested or intrigued by non monogamy, that all seem to think an anklet means something, especially in a bar or a dance club. They also seem to believe that Habits and Club 90 are places swingers go. If they see a woman dancing with someone other than her husband, and she has a anklet on, they feel or maybe hope, she may well be a swinger. Only a few have ever mentioned black rings. Interestingly enough, we believe, they bring the subject up, because they suspect we swing. Some of our friends know we swing and are really polite and non judgmental when they ask questions. We have had people tell us they have gone to Habits or Club 90 but have never run into us there. We think that we should revisit that some Friday nights. We don't want to disappoint. Saturday nights are usually already accounted for. If choosing a particular ankle, when in public, sends a sexy message that sparks a bit of playful, erotic fantasy between a curious and stable couple, then we are all up for sending that sort of message. It is how it starts for some of the hottest people.

Pissed when partner posts booty calls but does not follow throug - My partner posted a booty call an we had a good response but he won’t answer my calls or texts. - My partner posted a booty call and we had a good response but I can’t let my fellow swingers know because I don’t remember the password. I feel about it. I would host if I could.

Inconsiderate - Lack of consideration for others - Then perhaps you should edit your post, MAUI, to say that "the vast majority of people in the lifestyle THAT WE'VE ENCOUNTERED IN THE EXTREMELY SMALL GROUP OF SWINGERS ON MAUI are super shallow and don't give a crap about others". Maybe it's just Hawaiian people in general who are super shallow and don't give a crap about others. Or maybe just people on Maui. I'm really sorry your swinging experiences haven't met your expectations. And believe it or not I'm not trying to rip you a new one. I genuinely feel badly for you. Have you explored other options? Travel, obviously. How about other swing websites? Swingular is big here in Utah (it was started here) but there are few members almost everywhere else except Florida. And the part about Maui being family oriented...have ya HEARD about Utah? LOL A very wise swinging couple once told US that the way to be successful in swinging is to first get rid of you expectations (so you won't be disappointed) and then to approach each situation and couple looking FOR reasons to connect and play rather than looking for reasons not to. I'm not saying play with peeps you aren't attracted to or are not compatible with but far too often it seems swingers look for reasons WHY this or that couple isn't perfect and they end up being disappointed that they can't find anyone to play with. Try some different websites. Host some meet n greets. Hell, host a house party and invite people similar to yourselves. Just a few thoughts. Good luck.

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