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Alcohol - Looking for advice on alcoholic drinks - [quote=NaughtyOnes916]WTF ....Is this JuniorHighSchool??[/quote] Nope, it's a website for swingers and someone in our community doesn't like the taste of alcohol and asked for advice on which drinks they could try that they might enjoy. Per your profile, you're new to the area and perhaps don't yet comprehend how repressive the local culture is and how many of us grew up enduring YEARS of religious and cultural inculcation. Many here didn't grow up drinking alcohol and it's a relatively new experience for a lot of us. I don't see their question as any less valid than someone asking what kind of condoms or lube people prefer or would recommend. I'm certain that there are some foods and/or drinks that you or others here don't find to your taste. Sorry that you feel the OP's questions are somehow juvenile. Or perhaps you were responding to the recommendations of those answering the OP?

Imus Fired - The beginning of the end of Free Speech? - - ..................."we are squabbling over Sharpton and Jackson. Granted, I think the glorify things that are small. They are trying to make mountains out of mole hills.".................... You really coulda stopped typing right THERE. They DO try making mountains and in this case they REALLY succeeded. Would someone pulll--eeeezzze explain the point of fact away that if the phrase he used was SO horrible, SO despicable, SO outlandish, SO hurtfully-meant, SO otherworldly, Why OH WHY is it that it has been regurgitated to us 4,852,956,811 times in other media outlets....If he had come out and said the word "nigger" (derived originally from the Latin negro, which describes the COLOR black...not the human being....) noone in their right MIND would have republished it, but the "phrase that pays" in this case has actually become the punchline already. We all need to have the conversation that rages now as a result of this incident but not for the SAKE of the incident, rather for the sake of understanding. We also need to realize that we should not be quite this hypersensitive over words... and that is all this boils down to...language. Thank goodness that swingers are inherently open-minded...because the rest of the mainstream country sure falls short. ........."But, when the Rutgers girls were insulted, that gave the NCAA a position ".......... I sure would like to know how many of these women actually knew who the hell Don Imus was before they had this shoved in their faces as being an issue they should be hurt by.

Polyamory, Swinging, and the Single Man - - We know a few people that associate with the poly community, as in consider themselves poly and we have been to a few poly pot lucks ourselves. The poly people we know are all very nice people. None of the people we actually know that that consider themselves poly have ever actually been in a long term full on poly relationship as in everyone involved ending up equally as committed to each other and the relationship. We have known people where a married couple, with a bisexual wife had a live in relationship with a bisexual woman but in the end it did not last very long and the couple and the woman went their separate ways and we have know a few couples that have been in exclusive relationships with another couple where part of the equation wanted to basically make it as permanent as their primary relationship and part of the equation did not. Relationships with commitments, especially those that are the most rewarding are life altering and if you are not really, all in, heart and soul the advanced level of commitment and the corresponding obligations will eventually become a burden you may be unwilling to bear. If what is looking for as an individual is deep passionate friendships without expectations and obligations, that you feel reduce your freedom, then a poly relationship and marriage may not be in their best interest. There is nothing wrong with that. If a deeply pair bonded couple wants the freedom to enjoy deep and passionate friendships with others, including sex, without the same level of obligation and expectation they offer one to another then are they poly or are they swingers? Probably more swingers than truly poly-amorous or maybe they are poly light or swinger intense. The secret may be to figure out who you are and then be true to yourself. A lack of understanding of self can lead to disappointments in relationships. Intentionally misrepresenting or misleading someone for sex rarely and probably never ends up all good. We all on occasion may unintentionally end up misleading someone when we try and be what we think others wants us to be and in the end we just do not have it in us. We can say for a certainty that we are not poly in the truest sense of the word or really even poly light. Our relationship as a couple is paramount and we willfully and joyfully commit to all the obligations and commitments and even the disagreements that accompany living our lives together and with our progeny. We both inherited genes that seem to have targeted both of us to seek out a life long partner, have and raise a family and to express ourselves sexually mostly together as a couple. We have been in a couple of longer than usual not really exclusive relationships where we were seeing the same people pretty much weekly. We discovered that we are okay with having good friends with sexual benefits but the ability or the desire to be in a poly relationship is just not within either one of us. Self discovery and relationships often requires a bit of experimentation and a lot of self examination. Affiliating and seeking to self identify with a group to achieve acceptance friendship and sex is pretty common and pretty normal. Many of the people we know that self identify as poly are not unwilling to enjoy a little sex for sex sake between friends so long as they understand that is all that is happening. Good luck and have fun!

The males of couples I need your help!! - I am trying to understand my husband and male pride.But been that I am not a male this is hard.So please help. - First: We were childhood sweethearts. (At the age of 12.) We are best friends. We have been together for 10 years,been married for 8 years.For the ten years we have only be with each other.Before we were togrther I had been with 5 men (I do mean men.When I was a teen,I went out with men : 18 to 23.) Before we were togrther he had been with 7 girls.I was with one woman and Chris was there but we had to stop before we got started.(she only when down on me and Chris was watshing but then I told him to go down on her,so he did.Then we had to stop because someone was try to come in the room.We were at a house party.This is why we are here. Second: We are in the same place regarding swinging.I only want to be with another woman.I do not want to be with another man.(We both are not ready to have another man with us.)I just thought it would be easyer to fine a couple to do what we want.Then to find a single female.Because every where I go everyone is saying the samething " There are not as many single females looking for coupls as there is couples looking for single females."Please reread the post.It saids that We want to be with a single bi-female..... I only want the women to play and the men to watch...... Third: Nothing can get in the way of our marraige.We would never leave each other.We have been through too much together.At 18 we got back together and we had our frist miscarrage.At 19 we had our frist son and our son and I almost die and we had our second miscarrage and was told by a DR. that I could not have any more children.For 4 year we had sex maybe once a month because it hart to have sex.(When we had sex it was over real fast because he did not want to hurt me.)He never steped out on me.He never thought to step out on me.at 23 we had our second son.What ever was wrong with me was gone because it did not hart to have sex any more.At 25 we had our daughter and I almost die having her.For the past 2 years we have wild sex almost every night.After having kids we finely got our sex life back.Now if only I can get my body back. LOL <(That is a joke Chris loves my body) Chris is the best man out there for me.I should know because I have been looking for a husband since I was 16.All the men I went out with only cared about themselves and what they could get.Chis cares about me and trys to give me everything I want.THAT IS WHY WE ARE HERE.Because he is trying to give me what I want.He is the type of person that would give you the would if he could. Just so you know we as a couple have researched the swingers lifstyle for a year before we as a couple decieded to join the swingers lifestyle. We wrote this together.I just typed it . Candy & Chris

friends - - [quote=BLACKMAN01]firenice69- alot of people like the friends first , or just friends part of ls as well , alot of people on here are on my fb and are real freinds that ill never get to play with and im ok with that , [/quote][/quote] [quote=MR_TRIXIEE]Alot of people that we have meet on here are friends without benefits... for one reason or another we just have never pushed it to the next level... but I would say alot of couples on here are friends with more couples then just sex buddies... But to each their own for what they are looking for... you can find it all here.... [/quote] [quote=SUMINDYFUN]We are platonic friends with more Swinger couples that we have NOT played with, than those that we have. Some Swingers really enjoy the social aspect of the Lifestyle and enjoy the company of other open minded friends.[/quote] [quote=COWBOYOPIE85]I think having friends and not sleeping with them is good for the sole. I have quite a few couples and singles on here that I havnt done anything with, but hang out. Thats the main reason I use the site. The people on here are awsome to be around and if sex happens with them then it does, If not then I made some really good friends that I can hang out with on the weekends and watch the crashes in Nascar. You cant limit yourself to meeting people here just for sex cause it starts to make it frustrating and no fun. Just meet people to be friends with them and if there is a attraction then go from there. [/quote] Yeah. What they said. I am not on swingular for mindless fucking. I'm here cuz I'm a perv....basically I love [b]watching[/b] others have sex (live, webcam shit bores me to tears) and I like an occasional 3sum with a select woman. I have made some really good friends here - and a few of them have turned into playmates. I have also had playmates that are now JUST friends. Actually, at this moment, everyone is JUST a friend (no benefits) while I finish healing physically/emotionally from the last 3 months. I'm really lucky to have good friends who see more then just a cum receptacle. If you can't find a friend in a community, then I have to wonder what you are hiding and why you (you as in general, not just the OP) find the need to self protect and deny yourself an opportunity to connect on a different level then just "wham, bam, thank you m'am". Just my 2 cents. I'm going to go back to drinking my coffee now. It's too early in the morning to be thinking this hard. :D

New Primary Picture Policies - Starting March 1st, 2009 - I wonder if our main pic would be considers an obvious sexual act. For the most part we have decent pics but I would like to point out that most people with dirty pics are real swingers but there seems to be a lot of new members with "decent" main photos that are frauds. we have just spent the last 3 days chatting and making plans with a perv that has pics of his kids. If any one would like to know who this new member is hit us up and we will forward this s*#! heads profile to u.

Bukake????? - - I didn't get many responses but looking at all the pictures that are somewhat related (facials, etc) I'd have to say that the swingers in Florida enjoy that more than any other part of the country. I've also seen a preponderance(spl. ???) of evidence at other web sites. Go Florida!!!

Do you Expect to get laid at Swinger Parties? - - We never expect to play...we just go to have a good time. If we meet a couple to swap with...thats jsut a bonus. We have a great club/group of swingers around here....only thing I can say is try places and if ones not right try another....and word of mouth is the best at finding the one that might be right for you....or group does a weekly online chat night and helps inform people that want to know about of group and what to expect there. Also they do a Meet and Greet at a local bar on certain weekends to let newbies get to know the regulars.

Amazing Elite Halloween Party - - Most swingers are respectful. You are certainly in the right crowd. CB&KB

Body Size - - [quote=DRAR09]So I'm unfortunately a chubby girl, but I'm working on it. Hopefully this doesn't sound shallow because eveyone has a type they're attracted to, but are most average men in the lifestyle looking for girls of a smaller body type? Are us bigger women disregarded just by a picture or headline before anyone tries to get to know us? This isn't meant to be confrontational, but does a woman's personality matter more or less than her body?[/quote] It depends on the man, of course. Some men do value personality over body type and some definitely value body type over personality. It's the same for women too. In fact, on average, we've met more women who are extremely picky about body type, etc. than men. And body type isn't the only thing that can be a deal breaker for people. Age is also a line in the sand for many swingers. For others, things like smoking or drug use can be big factors in choosing play partners. And there are MANY quite minor factors that people use to weed out people they may not want to play with. I think it's probably because swinging is more or less a fantasy activity and people are looking for a certain type that hits most or at least some of their checkmarks for a fantasy partner.Those may be body type, hair color, ethnicity, age, or one of many other criteria. The really interesting part, to me, is how people are often FAR more forgiving of certain physical characteristics in their own partner than they are in someone they want to have sex with. Yet they often get upset when other people also have that same attitude. I do think, though, that people kind of get in their own way a little bit and in their search for the perfect swing playmate often overlook someone who is on many levels a good or even great match but not a perfect one. I think they're probably missing out on a lot of fun and a lot of good sex.

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