Finding Compatible Couples

Creating a Bull Profile

Your profile should communicate what you bring to a couple's experience:

Mention your understanding of bull/hotwife/cuckold dynamics
Describe your personality and what you're like during encounters
Be honest about your experience level
Include clear, recent photos (face photos build more trust)
State your boundaries and what you're comfortable with
Get verified—REAL and VIP verification matter to couples

Approaching Couples

Read Their Profile First

Many couples specifically state what they're looking for. Reference something specific from their profile in your message. Generic "Hey, looking for a bull?" messages get ignored.

Be Patient and Respectful

Couples receive many messages. Don't follow up aggressively if they don't respond immediately. A single polite follow-up after a week is acceptable; more than that becomes annoying.

Offer Value, Not Just Interest

Explain what makes you a good fit for their specific dynamic. Are you experienced? Patient? Good at following direction? Dominant when needed? Tell them.

Standing Out Positively

Get verified to prove you're real
Build a reputation through positive experiences and reviews
Be the guy who's easy to communicate with
Show emotional intelligence in your messages
Be honest about what you can and can't do

Reality Check

The ratio of single men to couples looking for bulls is heavily skewed. Competition is fierce. Success comes from patience, professionalism, and building a genuine reputation—not from sending more messages.