Door het redactieteam van Swingular · Beoordeeld op 6 juni 2026
Creating a Great Experience for Everyone
How to ensure the unicorn has as good a time as you do.
Belangrijkste punten
- •Her pleasure and comfort matter as much as yours
- •Communicate openly before, during, and after
- •Be flexible-things rarely go exactly as imagined
- •Focus on connection, not performance
Her Experience Matters
A great threesome experience is one where everyone-including the unicorn-walks away satisfied and valued. Too many couples focus only on their fantasy without considering whether she's enjoying herself.
Before the Experience
- Discuss expectations and boundaries with all three
- Ask her what she enjoys and what's off-limits
- Share your boundaries as a couple
- Agree on safer sex practices
- Make sure everyone has an exit strategy if needed
During the Experience
Do:
- • Check in with her throughout
- • Pay attention to her body language
- • Make sure she's receiving pleasure, not just giving
- • Be flexible if things unfold differently than planned
- • Stop immediately if anyone needs to
Don't:
- • Focus only on your couple dynamic while ignoring her
- • Assume what she wants-ask her first
- • Pressure her to do anything she didn't agree to
- • Ignore boundaries or safe words
- • Provide a different experience than what she asked for
After the Experience
- Thank her genuinely-not just with platitudes
- Follow up the next day to check in
- Be open to feedback
- Don't ghost her
- If it was good for everyone, discuss potential ongoing connection
Building Ongoing Connections
The best unicorn connections often become friendships, not just one-time encounters. When you treat someone well, they want to return. Many couples find their best experiences are with unicorns they've built genuine connections with over time.
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